Posing up for a failing relationship

It’s entirely normal—and well—for couples to argue. You’re two separate people, and you’re going to have different opinions sometimes. But what you might not realize is that how you act post-spat can be as important to your relationship as what you say in the heat of the moment. Some things to avoid, whether you’re totally over it or still working on that whole forgive-and-forget thing. Ok so we all want a relationship a good one might say, they have a good attitude no arguments or even fights just the play ones loll. Everybody hopes to have a good relationship with someone they want that “special” someone. They want a person like that to be their heart their soul and their world. Somebody once told me that relationships were bad and that they were just a waste of time. I told them that I didn’t care, and I wanted to be with someone who could treat me like I was their everything. You could talk to your parents I guess but I wouldn’t matter. They would just be another person to say that they were a waste of time and OMG this is my favorite line “boys are the reason why you are failing school’.  Parents always assume that this is why you’re failing school I find that funny. I would think that parents would find another excuse about boys. My parents don’t see boys as intriguing as anything else in their life. My parents wouldn’t even notice a thing.  But how we act and how we see what we do. Shouldn’t what we do with your own life should be your own business. I know that parents care about our decisions and what we do but when there’s a problem we can go to our parents. Sometimes we need space to guide us to where we need to go in a relationship but remember we can’t posture up for a failing relationship.